Tuesday, December 30, 2008

normal

A quick update to say that we have cancelled the brain MRI and bone marrow test-- the pee test came back within normal limits so we will wait 2 weeks to continue with the rest in NYC- He has not had any pain since the CT scan was done so we feel good about waiting for our NY trip to do the full work-up.

Other than that everything has been great-- Grier feels good except he woke up with a cough/bark- another normal thing for us to deal with!!
The other exciting news is that Grace got braces yesterday and she is so excited-- her teeth are sore but she is already taking really good care of them-
Looking forward to see what 2009 has in store for us--- Goodbye 2008~!

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Merry Christmas Ya'll~


Merry Christmas from our home to yours---
Grier seems to be feeling much better-- He is not complaining about anything and still sounds hoarse! He did not have any additional tests this week-- mainly due to a scheduling nightmare-- and I was not willing to offer to admit him or withhold food from him until 5pm -- I am trying to give him a Christmas that a 4 year old should have-! It looks like it will be next Wednesday for a few tests-- and hopefully by that time the "pee test" he took last Friday will be back from China-- ( not really-- but it does take a LONG time to come back!)-- and we will know something-- the markers in the urine are reliable so it could change all plans depending on what it says!

I am having a hard time believing today is the 24th--- Christmas Eve-- Where did December go? We have been so busy doing all of our annual Christmas traditions as well as adding new ones this year-- We rode around looking at lights-- and Grier told me that the house Mrs. Bailey told us about is better than the lights at Hollywood Studios in Disney... ( Mammoth Drive if you want to check it out for yourself!!) We also added an Elf on the Shelf named Freddie to our tradition and this has been fun-- Grier tried to beat the other 2 up each morning so he is the first one to find Freddie-- and just yesterday he came running in to tell Freddie to tell Santa that he had one more thing he wanted-- I was trying to explain to him that Freddie can not tell Santa things this late!! I think he is going to be very upset to see him go back to the North Pole tonight. One of my favorite things is the cards-- we love to look at them- The Nativity at Park Road Baptist is a favorite for all--- and Grier finally gets the story of Christmas this year-- I was laughing so hard last night as he asked a million questions as we watched the Wise Men, Angels, and Mary and Joseph-- He knew it all and we asked him how he knows all this and he said "Miss Beff" tells me at school!!!"--- And we went to the Children's service at Covenant today--- and again he knew the whole story and really gets what Christmas is about--He loved seeing all the animals and I loved seeing the donkey walking down the aisle of the church!!


We hope all of our new friends, old friends, family and special friends we have met along the way this past year and a half--have a wonderful Christmas full of HOPE, PEACE and JOY.
Merry Christmas-
A, J, H, G, & G

Saturday, December 20, 2008

5 more days and Christmas will be here and we are all excited at our house. Grier is into all the traditional Christmas activities and he can not be happier. This is the first Christmas I think he remembers since the last 2 were spent while he was sick---

With that said-- I will tell you what a crazy few days we have had--- A couple of days ago, Grier woke up and told me his back hurt. I took a deep breath... tried not to panic and chalk it up to the day before he was doing karate spinning kicks for most of the afternoon. He then told Jeff the same thing... and later he told my mom.. so the sick feeling in my stomach wasn't going away! The next day he complained of a headache--- and you can see how I was started to feel about these symptoms... but he went to basketball and played like a crazy person for an hour and then ate a great dinner--- On Friday... first thing he says to me is... " My neck hurts"--- and I freaked. As I was getting ready he is complaining his head hurts. I quickly went into that prepare to leave mode as I got everyone ready for school. I debated who to call.. NYC or CLT? And after dropping off Hayes and Grace at school -- I called Dr. M in CLT--- and you can imagine how that conversation went.... His great nurse told me to come in right away. Grier and I headed to the clinic-- Grier asked where we were going and I said -- to the clinic so Dr. M can look at your neck and he said OK! OK--- not the response I wanted from him-- maybe... NO, MOM I feel better now--- but not OK! So, I knew he felt bad-
We got to the clinic and did the drill--- weight, height, and are you in pain anywhere etc.--- and Mom-- Why are you here today?-- well-- that was round #2 of losing it! They put in an IV-- actually could not get it in at first-- but the 3rd time was a charm! We talked about how these are the symptoms that started this whole thing in 2007... and the fact that Grier does not complain ( he ran into the ladder that goes to the attic two weeks ago and it barely phased him--he looked like he had a broken nose but he said it didn't hurt!) He has a VERY high pain tolerance-- We did a urine test-- but that takes several days to get back so the only option was a CT scan- Grier has never done a scan w/o anesthesia so it was going to be tough to get one scheduled w/ anesthesia w/o being admitted into the hospital ( I did not want to have him admitted)--- So, we decided we would try to do it w/o anesthesia if they could work us in that day--- They ended up having a 3:30 opening. Grier had not eaten all day and actually was sleeping a lot in clinic-- we went to the scan and he had to drink this contrast-- he did it with lots of coaxing! They finally called him back to the "doughnut machine" around 4:15. He laid on the table had his head strapped down and was perfectly still while they scanned his head, neck, abdomen and pelvis--- We talked to him and said this was like a ride at Disney--- yes... a long shot but trying to make it fun!
We headed back up to the clinic and waited for Dr. M to come tell us something--- he came in and said he needed to go talk to the Radiologist because Grier has had so much surgery he wanted to make sure he was seeing everything. It seemed like a long time but he can back and said he did not see any new tumor or mass-- But he agreed he did not look well when we were at clinic and gave us options --- one being wait and see if the pain persists over the weekend then we can do more tests. And the other would be to do an MRI and bone marrow on MON, TUES, or WED to rule out marrow involvement-- We had a huge sense of relief that the CT did not find anything-- but we know NB is difficult to find so now we are deciding what to do-- Our full work- up will be on Jan. 19Th in NYC- We went home around 5:45-- and to say it was a long day is a huge understatement! Grier was talking a little more-- and if you know him you know he normally talks ALL the time! So.. he was still off a little-
Last night was not so great-- he did not sleep well and had bad dreams-- I would say more like night terrors-- but he did not complain about anything this morning hurting him. As the day has gone on -- he has perked up and actually has a little bit of a raspy voice! I am actually excited because it could mean he has something viral like we talked about yesterday-- But yesterday he did not have a cough, runny nose or sore throat. He is talking a lot more and even singing his songs again! I think he is feeling better... He does have some battle wounds from yesterdays tests-- both hands are bruised from trying to get an IV in and his arm was sore where it was in-- He told us how brave he was for being so still yesterday-- and I totally agree! I was not as brave as he was-- I just kept thinking of all the scenarios -- this time knowing too much- and trying to find my "game face" I was so good at many months ago!!
I am praying this whole thing was viral -- maybe we will all wake up with it in the next few days and I will be thrilled! I am sure this will be one of many times I freak out-- but it is really hard to tell what is NB symptoms and what is a normal kid illness---
This is certainly not the update I wanted to do at Christmas-- but it made me stop and think about how lucky we are today and not take it for granted-- because it all can change in a second!

Monday, December 1, 2008

THANKFUL!




Where should I begin this post? I hope everyone had a very nice Thanksgiving--- we did! And we have so much to be thankful for. I thought about listing them all but whenever I try to do that I always forget someone-- so I will not make a list! If you read this blog and have said prayers for our family during this ordeal called "CANCER" -- we are THANKFUL! You can not help but think that they are working when you see Grier-- I know.... I know... NED is not a cure but I am hoping that we continue on this path that we are on until the year 2012!... I am enjoying watching him grow into a preschooler with some personality! If you have done something to help me raise awareness and money to find a cure-- we are THANKFUL! I can not believe how much we have done in the last 6 months-- a great bake sale and a HUGE walk that raised a lot of money to help find a cure plus all the other things you all have done on your own! We are THANKFUL for all of Grier's past and present teachers! He made something at school and he is THANKFUL for Tucker ( our dog!) and Frisbees, soccer, and every other sports object in the catalog he cut pictures from! I am THANKFUL for FIRST PRES WDS-- he has gained more confidence -- made some great relationships with friends and teachers--- and sings songs he has learned all day LONG! So much for trying NOT to make a list-- but WE are THANKFUL for everything and that includes all of YOU!

Some of you know how we spent Thanksgiving this year-- It was not the norm but ended up to be very special and fun! My mother and her sister, Linda took us to Disney World for 4 days! No-- this was not his make- a - wish trip-- it was just a quick trip to Africa ( we stayed at Animal Kingdom Lodge!)-- 3 days and 4 parks ( Animal Kingdom, Magic Kingdom, Epcot and Hollywood Studios!) -- Hayes and Grace rode every ride they could -- sometimes even twice! Grier rode his first roller coaster and his favorite ride "DUMBO!"... saw some great shows and ate popcorn at all four parks! We had a lot of fun -- THANKS MOM and AUNT LINDA! We were able to do all these rides with little to NO wait because of a letter from our great social worker and Dr. Kushner in NYC-- as well as Disney's guest relations and the inside tip from Julie Sparks!! We are THANKFUL for that too!

We are THANKFUL to be home for the HOLIDAYS-- last year was a blur since we were gone more than we were here! We are THANKFUL that we had a home away from home last year at the RONALD in NY -- We are THANKFUL for Grier's doctors in NYC and CLT-- as well as both hospitals! I think we can safely say we are THANKFUL for everything!

ps-- If you are looking for a gift to send to family and friends... like some delicious cookies... I would be THANKFUL if you would go to www.cookiesforkidscancer.org and click on buy cookies! You will feel good because you have sent a gift that is delicious as well as helped fund research for a cure for pediatric cancer! Also-- if you are on the website and you click on children that inspire us--- you will see Grier..and a few other kids -- This is the fundraiser that Liam's mom started last year and they ended up donating $400,000 to MSKCC--

Sunday, November 30, 2008


We are back from Disney--- ! I will update as soon as we recover!
:)

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Below is a link to the local news coverage from the Curesearch Walk. So many of our friends are represented here.... thank you for all your support!!!!

http://www.wbtv.com/Global/story.asp?S=9368029&nav=menu1434_3

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Medals & Champions!


















We have been non-stop for about 48 hours!!!
Grier did great during his surgery on Friday morning--- We arrived at CMC- one day surgery at 7:30-- I thought I was doing really well getting him out of the house and arriving on-time-- As soon as I walked in-- I saw Anne waiting for us!! I was glad to have her there talking to me and helping me entertain Grier--- actually I think he was doing the entertaining!! The morning seemed to go quickly but we did not get home until 1:30! We then moved on to getting the final CureSearch walk tasks done-- picking up doughnuts.. going by Smoothie King... and totaling team #'s!! Grier was feeling really well by the afternoon and he decided he needed to go to Target-- and he did just that and got his new matchbox car!

Saturday morning came too soon-- Grace had an early (8am) soccer game so we all were up by 6:45-- yes..this was a weekend! Jeff and Grace left for her game and the rest of the crew got ready to head over to the park-- And from that point on the day was a blur!!!
Freedom Park was full of people trying to raise awareness for Pediatric Cancer--- the weather held out for us during the morning --- Medals were given to the kids that were childhood cancer heroes-- Grier has not taken his medal off since Saturday morning--! The walk started and the sun came out and the weather was gorgeous--! Teams were there supporting each other and money was raised to find a cure--- and I said to someone I would love to see our grand total come to $ 100,000- Dream Big by Roger Day was played over and over again and then the total was announced-- The first MILESTONES CureSearch walk in Charlotte, NC-- raised over $101,000!!! Thanks to everyone that came out to walk, donated money, sponsored a marker, or helped me find contacts for DOUGHNUTS!! (I had to put that in , KRISTIE!!!) and came to walk from out of town ( Aunt Katherine, Aunt Linda, Anne and the Barnette crew.. Kristie, Ken and Grant!)-- The day was better than I ever thought it could be and Grier was so excited- I put a picture of Grier and his friend, Isabella on the blog-- They were so cute holding holds as the walked behind the banner to start the walk-- She is another NB warrior that goes to MSKCC and lives in Charlotte, NC!

Here is a link to see the pictures of the walk taken by the photographer-- copy and paste this!

www.treasuredeventsofcharlotte.com/kalendar/index.php?cat=2008/Nov/CURE%20SEARCH%20Inaugural%20Charlotte%20Walk%2011-15-08%20at%20Freedom%20Park&start=18

Today started just as early as Saturday-- Grace and her team were in a tournament and they had 2 games on Saturday --I did not get to see either :( They also had two games today and I was excited to watch the team play really hard together! ALL 3 U9 Charlotte United Girls teams did a fundraiser for Go Grier Go--- They wore special jerseys this weekend that were tie-dyed and had Go Grier Go on the back--- I put a picture of our team on the blog--- They looked great! Thanks to all 3 teams for supporting Grier and being a part of his team! The girls played really well and ended up winning the game. Grace and her team got a medal after they won the championship game! Grier had to tell Grace that she has a medal like his now!!!

As this weekend winds down I am again humbled by the good things people do for our family-- We do not take for granted anything and I know sometimes we do not thank everyone enough-- So-- THANK YOU for being a part of our growing team!!!

ps--I know some of you are wondering what we are going to do now--- well-- WE ARE GOING TO DISNEY WORLD!!! no-- I am not kidding :)

Thursday, November 13, 2008

2 days to go--!

I have tried to flip this picture around but I can not for some reason so... just turn your head!!

The final countdown for the Milestones walk is on!!! 2 more days to go and I am pleased to say that the Go Grier Go team has grown to 135 people & we are still counting! We also have raised a huge amount of money for Pediatric Cancer Research!! As a group our total is almost $14,000!! I am so excited to say that right now... our Charlotte Milestones walk has raised $71,000!!! The best part is we will not know the final amount until Saturday because people will be bringing money with them !!! That is an amazing accomplishment for our community!! WAY TO GO -- GO GRIER GO & all the other 40 teams that are signed up for Saturday!
And Thanks to our newest sponsor-- Cox-Schepp for sponsoring the walk!!!!

I took this picture of Grier today while I was trying to write names of the children that are being honored at the walk-- He was making me laugh because he thought we should play twister on the banner!! And he was noticing first names that he could read -- kids that had the same names in his class!

Tomorrow will be quite a long day but I am going to be patient! I already did the pre-screening in the car while waiting for Grier at carpool so we are all set to get this port out tomorrow at 9:30! Grier has asked a ton of questions-- so many more than he would have asked a year ago-- and my simple answers are not as good as they once used to be!! He knows he is getting his port out and I tried to tell him-- Hey Grier, you get the white medicine-- and it did not seem to impress him as it has in the past-- He will not be happy that he can not "push it himself" and he is going to be really mad when he finds out that he has to wear a Gown!! So... since my simple answers do not work I have decided that bribing might and so far I think it will work!! We will be going to Target to the toy aisle!!! It will be worth the matchbox car he picks out!

IF you are planning to walk with us on Saturday-- please try to be there by 9am-- I would suggest parking on the Princeton Ave. side of the park or at Whittington Baseball field-- all activities will be at the Amphitheater -- Remember to wear a GGG shirt if you would like too-- If you have any $$ to turn in I will have an envelope for each of you!! And if you raised at least $46, $100, or $250 you will get a prize-- I will have a totals as of Friday at 5pm--- You will need to see me for a prize "ticket"
This day is RAIN or SHINE!
I will try to find a spot where we can all meet as a team-- just look for the GGG crowd!

See you Saturday if you plan to come or THANK YOU for support this cause!


Wednesday, November 5, 2008

I thought I would do a quick update on Grier-- he has been doing GREAT!!! He loved Halloween and has now moved on from his imaginary baseball/soccer team to his basketball team!!! Yes-- we did have to get him Chuck Taylor's for his "uniform"!

On the medical front it has been quiet for us-- tomorrow we will go see Dr. McMahon for his monthly check-up-- And next Friday (14th)-- his mediport will be taken out! Exciting in so many ways but scary in some ways too--- We have not had surgery in Charlotte in so long-- I am out of practice-- I am used to MSKCC so it will be an adjustment for us! I joked with a friend and said that I would bring my stroller and as soon as he blinked I was leaving the recovery room and walking home-- Hey-- that is what we did in NYC! I know that will not be the case and have been told to spend at least an hour in recovery-- maybe longer- ( Hey.. Susan can you go to outpatient and be our nurse that day??? :) PLEASE!!! I wish some of our NYC friends were as lucky as we have been for the last few months-- I am sick of reading about kids losing their battle with NB and those that are relapsing -- It has been non-stop lately -- It is really NOT fair--

We were given a gift that is priceless-- Angela Shea came to our house and went to the Park with us to do some family photographs-- First... let me say she was AWESOME to work with and if you need a children's photographer-- I would give her 10 stars!!! Here is the blog she does and you can see some of our pictures-- http://www.shea.typepad.com

And everyone who reads this blog ( which is NOT many any more) knows I only have a few more days to write about the CURESEARCH milestones walk on Saturday, Nov.15th-- Our GGG team is not at 100 yet--- and I am begging you to pre-register to make my life easier as a team captain on the morning of the walk-YOU MUST register everyone that will be walking-(it is $10 per walker) - I am going to be wearing a million hats that morning and I would love to have everyone that is going to walk with us register on-line-- If you can not walk in person-- join the team as a virtual walker-- send out a few emails-- set a goal of $10 and see the difference you make when everyone contributes a little bit! Also-- as the disorganized team captain that I am --- I did not print any special shirts for our team to wear-- IF you have a Go, Grier, Go shirt-- wear it! IF NOT-- Kerri may have a few so if you email me I can forward that to her-- And IF YOU DO NOT want to wear a GGG shirt-- that is OK too!
The walk is going to be fun-- only a couple of laps around Freedom Park lake-- music... Sir Purr, Lug- Nut, Molly Grantham, Starbucks, Smoothie King, Krispy Kreme.. Kids.. Families.. doctors.. nurses... friends... neighbors.. all coming together to show their support for finding a cure-

Thanks to the latest sponsor of the walk--- Commonwealth Animal Hospital!!! Thanks Jimmy !

I am sure I have forgotten something -- oh well-- maybe I will update more often!!

Friday, October 31, 2008

Article from Crystal Coast Parent Magazine

This is a great article that was just published in the Crystal Coast Parent magazine about the bake sale my college roommate organized in Morehead City, NC.... Kristie did great writing this article and hitting the points that are important-- Thanks again, Kristie! The pictures in the article are from our sale in Charlotte... we tried to get the Charlotte Observer to cover it BUT they gave us the run around as they have done with every request regarding the childhood cancer awareness month, Cookies for Kids Cancer and the CURESEARCH milestones walk ( They do not think pediatric cancer is important enough to cover!)-- OH Well!!-- at least Morehead City gave it some press! If you click on the picture of the article it will get bigger so you can read the entire piece-



Wednesday, October 22, 2008

A new THANK YOU and one LONG overdue!






First, Grier is doing great in school-- he loves to tell us about his friends and teachers. He went on his first field trip to Discovery Place-- All normal things for him and we are so glad-- He is looking forward to Trick or Treating-- He does not remember going before ( he was only 2) but we have talked about it enough that it will be fun to watch him enjoy Halloween-- It is hard to believe the 1 year anniversary of his HUGE surgery is in a few days!! On the medical front, we may be taking his mediport out !! We got the OK from Dr. Kushner in NY and he said the sooner the better! He said it could be done in NY or in Charlotte-- so we will start the process in Charlotte-- I know that if we were in NY it would be done quickly in a procedure room but I am not sure what it will entail here-- I just hope it does not require an admission to the hospital-- We are taking it out because we are not using it often enough to warrant the risks of having it in (ie. infections)-- the only downfall will be having an IV for all blood draws-- but hopefully he will handle that as well as being accessed-

Since all three are in school -- I have stayed busy trying to help organize the CureSearch Walk-- I have decided that when I do get a "real/ paying job"-- it will not be in fundraising!! As much as I love to hear the words.. "yes, I would love to help"--- I can not stand the No's! And lately that is all I have been told! I know the economy is bad-- trust me.. I know --BUT I also know cancer does not care! And my scale of BAD is so skewed by the words "your child has cancer" it is a little different - So, I go full speed for awhile-- then I take a break and get energized and go full speed again because of something good I hear from some of you---!

Those good things have been happening for quite awhile-- some are things I did not ask anyone to help with -- they just decided to make a difference on their own by using Grier's story. John Cantrell recently completed an Iron Man all the while raising a lot of money for pediatric cancer research! He has worked on this for a long time and I could not be more thankful!!
Everyone knows about the Cookies for Kids Cancer bake sale we had-- but what you do not know is that I asked another friend if she would have one too-- She not only had a successful bake sale but her church in Morehead City, NC decided they would partner with the idea and use it as their mission project and kick it off on the Sunday that the children led the worship-- So many great things came out of that day in Morehead City at First Presbyterian Church. The whole church family learned about the need for more funding for children fighting cancer as well as coming together to bake cookies in their Fellowship Hall to sell at the bake sale! Both worship services were about children including songs and sermons-- and a guest speaker, 4 year old, Grant who told why they were baking cookies and told the congregation about Grier! I heard they want to make it an annual event now!

This is from Kristie on her experience with the bake sale---

The children had a fantastic day on Saturday baking cookies and making their "cookie pots"! The Children's Sabbath was just wonderful with all the gold ribbons throughout the church and the message Suzy gave was remarkable! I'm forwarding you a link to the church website so you can hear it with your own ears. The way Suzy gave the message of seeing God through the eyes of children, children's cancer awareness and our responsibilities to all children was beautiful! You will be amazed by the personal connection Suzy has with St. Jude! I hope you will each take a few minutes to listen to it. I promise it's worth it! The website is www.firstpresmhc.org. If you click on "Recent Sermons" the audio is available today.

I found out yesterday that the article I submitted to the "Crystal Coast Parent" Magazine will be off the press next week. The article is about Cookies for Kids' Cancer and encouraging people to host a holiday bake sale. I was so pleased to find out it made the cover of the magazine! The magazine will go out to over 16,000 readers in eastern North Carolina. I hope the article will do the organization justice! At least there will be that many more North Carolinians made aware of the shortfall of funding for pediatric cancer and they CAN make a difference!

And that leads me back to talking about the CureSearch Milestones walk--- The Go, Grier, Go team is 87 members strong at this point and we as a team have raised more than $10,000! I still would love to hit my goal of 100 team members.... some of the concerns I am hearing is that the fundraising goal is set at $200 per walker-- please do NOT worry about this-- Also, this walk is a few laps around Freedom Park's lake-- not a long distance so this should be a family event for all levels of athletic ability!!!

That is it for my overdue update-- My favorite part is that the medical issue is NOT the biggest deal right now -- I think that would be finding a cure !


Friday, October 10, 2008

We made it home -- I can not believe how much we did this morning in the wee hours before we left for the airport-- packing sheets, cleaning and getting ready is more than most can handle and we did it on almost NO sleep! Our car picked us up from the RMDH-- and took us to LGA-- we were so early the breakfast places were not open yet-- except for one and it had a line with 30 people-- we had plenty of time and waited a little-- nothing else to do at that hour- We boarded our full plane-- and made it safely home- Grier slept the whole time on the plane and woke up saying "that was quick-- we are already in Charlotte!"-- He was ready for the day--- I took him to school and he was so happy to be back in his routine- I can not believe how well he does transitioning between NYC and CLT-- I am also shocked that he keeps going and going even after 4 bone marrow aspirations done less than 24 hours ago- Amazing... most adults would be down for the count for days!

I went to meet with the CureSearch Milestones Walk ( www.milestoneswalk.org) Committee while Grier was at school-- I can not believe we are 5 weeks away from Charlotte's 1st Childhood Cancer Awareness Walk-- We still have a long way to go to make this a HUGE event-- we are looking for sponsors-- your business can sponsor a marker for $500-- these markers will be placed around the lake at Freedom Park-- ( A huge thanks to A&K painting, Schattenfield Law Firm and Lowe's Motor Speedway-- they answered my plea for sponsors awhile ago-- ) We still need more! We are also working on other exciting things for the walk so you will not want to miss this event-- There is a team Go, Grier, Go!-- Right now we have 78 people on it -- I am still waiting to reach that 100 mark!! It is a $10 registration fee-- please register ASAP if you plan to walk-- it will help with the planning of the event-

During the meeting, my cell phone rang and caller ID said MSKCC-- I was a little nervous to answer because I thought it was too soon to hear anything else-- I was told that Grier's test show no signs of NB-- so I was relieved and thrilled- This will give us another 90 days in between the next set of scans-- And that covers the HOLIDAYS!!!

Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers this week-- And to Susan Shimp, my mom, and Jeff's parents for helping with Hayes and Grace this week-- Give me a few days to recover and I will update again!

Thursday, October 9, 2008

We are done with all 5 scans--- I am not sure I have ever been so worked up about a work up !!  Sleeping has not been easy for a week or so!  We did hear results from 2 tests today... the MIBG was clear and the MRI ( of the brain and orbits) was clear-- That was nice to hear this morning as I put him on the table to have his bone marrow tests done-  We will hear next week sometime about the other 3-- I am relieved to say the least--  He did great all week with the waiting, anesthesia,exams etc.  And there is no doubt we are at a wonderful hospital great nurses and doctors-- 

We are headed home tomorrow and Grier is very excited-- Every morning he asks if "tomorrow is the day we were going back home"-- And I was happy to say "YES" this morning-  We are going to try to make a flight at a crazy early time--  Grier may even go to school if he is up to it-- Right now-- he is planning on it! And he is planning on bringing his tornado that he made at the science class here at the Ronald--

I will update when we get home- and as I know more results-



Wednesday, October 8, 2008

The MIBG scan went fine -- I guess! We do not know anything yet- Grier woke up well from anesthesia-- so that's what I mean - Childlife came down and tried to talk us into doing it w/o the white medicine-- I asked Grier if he could stay still and watch a movie while they took pictures and he immediately got "anxious"-- I looked at her and said-- no- we will do it with the white medicine- She wanted him to come back this afternoon and "try" the CT machine-- I said maybe next time because we promised him a trip to Toys R US-- he wanted to ride the Ferris Wheel-- and I did not think it was going to be as fun to "try out" the CT machine! Some probably disagree but we have not done anything fun this trip and I was going to get him on the Ferris Wheel if that is what he wanted to do-
Tomorrow we have to get him to drink 8oz of contrast-- we mix it in a clear liquid-- I thought I would be smart this trip --I packed his favorite...wild cherry water (capri sun)-- All but one was taken at the airport-- the TSA lady said he could have 1--- well, I needed 2 to get 8 oz.-- So, we will have to venture out later to find a clear liquid for the morning- We have to be there at 10:30 for his scan and then they will do bone marrows after that-
His ears are still very red-- he is on an antibiotic 3x a day-- believe it or not this is his first ear infection- We have a make shift fridge in the tub.... a basin filled with ice!!!!! Nice huh? I did not feel like going to the over stuffed community fridge for medicine-- (3x a day)
We walked to 42nd street and 7th Ave. today--- stopping at Toys R Us for a ride on the Ferris Wheel and a new SpongeBob leapster game-- we had a nice late lunch at Lindy's-- it was good but it definitely had NY prices-- a $16 grilled cheese!!
We found out there is not a corporate angel flight for us to return to Charlotte--so I booked a USAir flight for Friday--not much choice since most were sold out and some were $600 a person-- luckily I found something that was less! It makes me a little anxious to think that with the economy like it is-- our travels to NY may be like this for awhile- I may have to stop gambling with a corporate angel flight and just book a round trip as soon as we know when we have to return. I am sure it will work itself out-- and by the looks of 5th avenue today... you would never know about the economies troubles! Shoppers everywhere--with bags!

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

MRI done!

We are almost done with day 1 of scans-- I am really glad considering last night was one of the roughest we have had in a while-- Grier had a really hard time settling down - which was very surprising since he should have crashed from getting up early and having a really busy day-- Around midnight, he told me his ear hurt. I kept asking him about his ears because he would cover them up and talk loudly-- and this started as soon as we got off the plane -- I thought the air pressure was bothering him-- But he said he was fine-- and told me he was louder when he covered his ears-- Around 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 he was sleeping but not peacefully-- and I started thinking about the Urgent care-- not really where I wanted to go-- we ended up waking up around 7:30 and he said he was fine-- I knew that was going to be my first question at the check-up-
We got to the PDH around 8:30-- and he made his rounds to see some nurses-- he was very shy until they asked what he has been doing at home.... He would say.. I go to school (by myself!)-- and then he would tell them that Mrs. Johnson, Mrs.Thompson, and Mrs. Winn are my teachers-- One of our favorites said-- Grier are you in High School now??-- You have so many teachers! And Grier laughed and he said, No, PRESCHOOL!-- Then he shared with everyone that he does not wear diapers anymore-- just boxers!
After all the catching up, he had his check up and guess what??? Grier has ear infections in both ears! I was shocked-- one looks really bad and must hurt-- they were shocked too because he did not have any symptoms-- He was going to start getting immunizations again but because of the ear infections we are going to wait-- A fever is the last thing we want right now--since he has a mediport. He will still get his flu shot on Thursday while he is under anesthesia for his bone marrow tests-
Anyway-- He did great with his MRI-- there was a little confusion about having him try to do it w/o anesthesia-- I told them I did not want to try on this test because it is so loud and long (an hour)-- maybe a CT-- so they called the Dr. in to give him the white medicine-
He woke up and told Emily ( nurse) that he wanted a bagel and OJ-- well-- it was 12:30 and we ended up at Lenny's for a turkey sandwich-- He can not have OJ because of the urine test that he has to do tonight!! He insisted on getting out of the stroller at Lenny's and he was very wobbly -- I caught him a few times-- and finally convinced him to sit until he was not quite so dizzy!
We are back at the RMDH house now and Grier is playing an arcade game-- we have to go back at 2:30 for the nuclear injection-
Tomorrow we have the MIBG scan-- He will not be able to eat or drink anything after midnight again-- I will break that to him later-- He told me last night that he was starving!! Can't wait to hear what he says about that again--

Monday, October 6, 2008

We are settled in NYC!

We are settled in for our first night at the RMDH-- it is hard to believe we have not been here for 3 months-- but it was not hard to get back into the groove-- There are a few familiar faces and lots of new faces-- It is again a FULL house--!
Grier decided we should go to Southern Hospitality for dinner-- Jeff enjoys the sweet Tea and Grier wanted creamed corn... aka "corn soup"-- well, in 3 months the menu has changed so he had to settle for corn on the cob! We walked back our normal path and stumbled upon a new bakery right next to the RMDH-- Grier got a pink cupcake with a baseball topper-- ! He is watching a movie and all snuggled up in a Hello Kitty blanket--- Grace let him borrow it for a few days- He is a little apprehensive about tomorrow-- I told him we had to get a picture taken at the hospital and he was fine with that until it dawned on him that his port has to be accessed to get the white medicine-- AHHH! The smarter he gets the harder this is going to be--! I hope he shows the real Grier tomrrow at clinic-- he has been so funny lately-- His new favorite show is Fennious and Ferb--and he is saying things just like the show!

Jeff is busy watching baseball on the 1 TV--- I may go crazy if we are going to only watch sports in this tiny room!! I guess I can work on figuring out facebook!! HA!HA!

I am looking forward to getting these tests over-- I am very anxious and I already miss our new normal--!

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Candy or Shoes Off?

http://wcbstv.com/video/?id=118285@wcbs.dayport.com--
Bake sale video -- very good!!

On Friday morning, Grier asked me what airport we going to when we go to NY? He said, Is it "the one with candy" or "the one where you take your shoes off"?-- I had no answer for him at the time because it typical fashion I was waiting to hear back from Corporate Angels. After I dropped him off at preschool, the phone started ringing-- And I was feeling a little better because we were getting some sort of a plan-- We were told of a flight on Sunday night- ( we have flown on this flight a lot--) Not my first choice since our scans do not start until Tuesday but I am trying to be more flexible-- so I said I would take it--- after multiple phone calls between us- working out the same details as every other trip we have flown with CA-- I was told OK-- you are on that flight! I had to start calling our NY social worker to change our reservation at the Ronald-- we were suppose to arrive Monday-- all of those details were taken care of and I was getting in my NY groove-- I started preparing my house.. bills paid, list made, checking my calendar so I could pass off my life to my mom -- I was getting tons of things done and the phone rang-- The woman said "BAD News"-- And I knew the flight had been cancelled! Yes- I should be used to this by now-- but I was assured this one was going- I immediately got on the phone to the social worker and told her we would not be coming in Sunday Night-- I am little worried about housing at the Ronald again-- She said it is tight once again and they are working on putting people at hotels but we SHOULD be OK-- will not know until we get there- I booked a flight (one-way) on US Airways-- and we will fly into NY on Monday- I wanted a late afternoon flight so Grier could at least go to school one day but with the room situation at the Ronald we need to get there so we have some daylight to find a place to go if there is no room!
I hate this part of going to NY-- I know it would be easier not to have to worry about the logistics of getting there- I can see why some choose to stay at the Ronald long-term-
We are shifting gears a little to get ready-- You have to do things differently when you go to the airport "where you take your shoes off"! Grier is looking forward to the trip-- not sure why but he is ready to go. He did ask if he has to get a finger prick? I said I did not think so and he wanted to know if that was forever? Certainly, can not promise forever but I will try to get them to take blood from his port! He hates the finger prick more than anything in the world! So-- for him this will be a good trip without that!

Monday, September 29, 2008


We are still doing fine! Grace's 9th Birthday is today and I am so glad we are not in the hospital celebrating like we did last year! Grier is planning for Halloween--- yes, he is going to be a shark! Or as he said.. A shark playing soccer! It is hard to believe it is almost Halloween again-- last year he was in PICU for Halloween so we are hoping for a much different celebration this year-

We have to be in NYC by Tuesday, October 7th for his 3 month scans-- I am not sure where our 90 days went but we have enjoyed each and every one of those days- "scanxiety"-- is my new word lately-- I am trying to not worry about the unknown and just live each day one day at a time!

We are still wrapping up from a very successful bake sale-- Thanks to all of you that came to support us-

The milestone walk is coming up soon-- NOV.15th! Please sign up to walk on our team-- I have not met my goal of 100 people yet! We also need folks to get involved in other ways-- I know so many things are going on with the world right now but there are also tons of kids fighting this awful fight right now too-- We need more teams-- think of a group you are in and do a team-- I know Union County schools are trying to get teams formed-- I also know a mayor is getting a team started---

I will update more when I know our schedule for going to NY-- I am waiting to see if we can get on a corporate angel flight--

Sunday, September 21, 2008



Two days... lots of cookies, brownies, cupcakes, cakes, muffins, rice krispy treats.... lots of stories of hope and courage... bottled water... tons of help from children... tons of help from friends, family and neighbors... And the end result is a $2000 donation to Cookies for Kids Cancer--- a donation to support pediatric cancer research for all kids fighting the battle and those that have not been diagnosed yet--- hoping that this money helps doctors find a cure someday-!

Day 1 was a success!





Day 1 of the BAKE SALE for COOKIES FOR KIDS CANCER was a success! We had a lot of traffic from people going to the festival as well as our friends that stopped by to get a yummy treat- We were very busy-- People loved the idea and some just donated because they were survivors or they wanted to support the children in this fight- I can not say enough about the amount of baked good that you all donated-- cookies... cupcakes.. brownies... banana bread...AND the HUGE amount of items donated by GREAT HARVEST BREAD CO. and POLKA DOT bake shop-- People recognized this items right away and commented about how nice they thought those businesses were to donate--- AND we could not agree more! As you can see from the pictures.... Everyone had fun helping... Grier helped by eating a cupcake made by 7 year old Hadley Sparks--- I put a picture up of the ones she decorated-- Kids loved them and they did not last long!

If you did not make it-- There is lots of items that will be for sale today-- LOTS of Great Harvest cookies and sweets-- and German Chocolate cupcakes from Polka Dots as well as the local baker assortment---!

See you around 3 on Jameston---

Friday, September 19, 2008


Quick update-- We are almost ready for the Cookies for Kids Cancer Bake Sale--

The hours are as follows--
Saturday 4-7 ( or until we run out!)
Sunday 3-6 ( or until we run out!)

Come by and stock up on some yummy treats made by some local bakers as well as Great Harvest Bread Co. and Polka Dot Bake Shop! All proceeds will support Pediatric Cancer Research--

Checks will be accepted and are payable to Cookies for Kids Cancer-- It is a 501 (c) 3 charity--

If you can not make it-- You can do your own bake sale-- check the website for information
www.cookiesforkidscancer.org

Thanks to everyone that dropped off water and goodies today--- !! Every little bit helps!

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Bake Sale update and a little Beethoven!!



More free Beethoven ringtones



Bake Sale update---

Well-- I put the word out that we are having a bake sale for Cookies for Kids Cancer and I have had tons of offers to help bake--- not sure if it because everyone that knows me knows that I do not cook much or they just want to help!!! I am going to assume they just want to help!

As of now, we have some cookies being donated from Great Harvest Bread Co. ( I think they are the best cookies in Charlotte!!)... I also know we have some banana bread, brownies, lemon bars, and lots of cookies coming--

IF you want to help--- please just bring your items to my house on Friday or Saturday -- I will have a box on my front porch. Here are some ideas that would be great-- cupcakes.. rice krispy treats... a cake.. and bottled water-- I do not need to know what you are bringing so if you have time just drop it by my house- I have clear bags to put things in as well as a cute sticker with the logo on it-

IF you want to ask your favorite bakery to donate something then please do-- I know we are waiting on an answer from Polka Dots (cupcake shop) and The Bread Basket has already been asked --they said NO-- but you may know of another source -- Go for it! Remind them it is for a great cause-- HT might do it at each store level-

I think we will start around 4pm on Saturday--- I will decide later as soon as I figure out the other schedules in my house--

Grier is continuing to do very well-- He makes us laugh-- Today, he got in the car at carpool and said he went to music.. I asked what song he sang and he said "Beethoven"-- I asked him to sing it and he hummed Beethoven's 5th-- And now our whole house is humming it and we have listened to it over and over in my car- He loves to tell me what part is going to get louder-- ( That is why the music is on here)

He did bring me back to reality this afternoon when he asked if we could take our dog to New York with us? I said no-- and he said he was ready to go again-- I asked him why he wanted to go so badly and he told me he liked to push the "white medicine"--- NICE-- he is looking forward to anesthesia! October will be here before we know it -

I will update before Friday to let you know the details of the bake sale-- Remember if you want to help-- don't ask me -just do it!! I hope this has helped with knowing what the needs are-


Monday, September 15, 2008

Be a good Cookie!


Grier had the best week of school last week-- He was very happy everytime he got into the car and told us lots of stories about his new friends at school-- We are so excited to see him get to be a kid again!

So many good things have been happening lately... the GGG team is growing everyday-- it is almost to 100!!! Everyone seems very excited about doing a personal page and getting pledges for CureSearch. I think we need about 30 more to go to reach 100--

I have also been working on something else!! I know some of you are thinking WHY!!! Well--- I can not sit here and do nothing, so I said "YES" to a birthday wish that Gretchen Holt ( Liam's mom) had about a month ago. She wished for 100 people to have a bake sale. She has just started a new organization to support pediatric cancer research. It is called cookies for kids cancers...www.
cookiesforkidscancers.org Anyway, I asked 2 people to also have a bake sale and guess what??? They said "yes" too! My college roommate, Kristie has taken this simple idea and run with it-- her bake sale is going to in the middle of the NC Seafood Festival in Morehead City on Oct. 4th & 5th--AND the youth at her church have decided this is going to be a mission project for them and they will kick it off on their Youth Sunday! Amazing---! That leads me to our bake sale--- Grace has been waiting to do a lemonade stand and we decided to wait until Festival in the Park ( which is this weekend!)-- Why??? Well... on a good weekend they expect 100,000 people and most will park somewhere close to our house. We will be having a bake sale/lemonade stand in our yard this weekend--- The proceeds will go to Cookies for kids Cancer... and a lesson will be learned by all that help! Yes... I am teaching my kids to think bigger than themselves and to be a good cookie!!! Wish us luck as we try to squeeze in soccer and baseball games in between setting up shop in our yard!

Finally, the last story is about a family that decided they were going to raise awareness and recognize that September is Childhood Cancer Awareness month-- Kerri woke the boys up for church yesterday and told them to get ready to go-- She told them to wear their Go Grier Go T-shirt-- and her youngest said.. "MOM, Are we going to wear a T-shirt to church?" And she said "YES -- we all are!" She also had everyone wear a gold ribbon... And they were noticed and asked what the ribbons were for....

Thanks to all for that are working behind the scenes to bring awareness!!!!








Sunday, September 14, 2008

This was taken from Forbes Magazine---

Commentary

Childhood Cancer: Where's the Money?
Helen Jonsen 09.12.08, 12:01 AM ET
Helen Jonsen

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First it began as little night pains in the leg, the kind most parents associate with growing pains. We told our little girl, "Don't worry, it will go away," and the next morning it seemed fine. She ran and played and enjoyed the days of summer, like her friends did.

But our nine-year-old's nights became more painful. A swelling in her knee got worse. A slip in the wet grass became an excruciating accident. There was little sign of anything more serious, but the pain grew in intensity and frequency. A couple of weeks went by, and a new school year was about to begin.

Finally, one tearful night, when Dad was massaging her leg to help it feel better, he felt a lump in addition to the swelling. He took her to the pediatrician, hoping against hope. The doctor later admitted his "blood ran cold" when he felt her leg.

Within hours, she was diagnosed with osteosarcoma, a bone cancer that often first appears near the knee or elbow joint, and can spread to the lungs and become fatal. A biopsy confirms the diagnosis. Osteosarcoma is found in only 400 children each year in America.

In this case, less than a month after the onset of symptoms, the tumor had grown to the size of a wine bottle, forcing an oncology surgeon to remove 80% of her femur and her knee joint and rebuild her leg internally with a space-age prosthetic.

She underwent debilitating chemotherapy for ten months, her entire fifth-grade school year, and continues physical therapy and rehabilitation so that her bionic leg, with half its healthy muscle intact, can learn to walk again. We now believe our daughter is one of the survivors.

No matter how good the treatment, not every child survives. One child in five whose parents hear the terrifying words "your child has cancer" will die. Sometimes the advancing cancer cannot be stopped with all the weapons in the oncologists' current arsenal. Sometimes it is the "cure" protocol that kills them. And every time, a parent wonders why, and cries.

Our daughter's battle with pediatric cancer is one of 12,500 in America each year, the most common kinds being leukemias and lymphomas. In July, Congress acknowledged that research into children's cancers is underfunded. Why would that be the case?

For one thing, children with life-threatening diseases exhaust their families emotionally and often financially; even after recovery, neither the children nor their parents find it easy to advocate for themselves. The children are too young, and for the whole family there is always that fear of recurrence. Parents want some respite before the horror might begin again. Unlike other health care lobbies, they do not have the energy to march in the streets and call for action.

According to Kate Shafer, Director of Advocacy for CureSearch National Childhood Cancer Foundation, most federal funding for childhood cancer research comes from the National Cancer Institute (NCI), with a small amount coming through appropriations. Schafer says, "It's a bit difficult to determine how much in any given year is spent on childhood cancer research. It is around $170 million per year."

Most of that goes toward laboratory research. The funding for pediatric cancer clinical trials has gone down every year since 2003, and is currently $26.4 million. By comparison, NCI funding for AIDS research was $254 million in 2006; funding for breast cancer topped $584 million the same year.

It often takes one person's passion, born of pain, to raise awareness and start a movement. The sad truth is that it has taken a Congresswoman's loss to move her colleagues, but federal funding for research into the treatment and cures for pediatric cancer is being penned into law.

In June, the House of Representatives passed H.R. 1553, which authorizes $30 million annually over five years to fund clinical trial research, create the first population-based national childhood cancer database and further improve public awareness and communication regarding available treatments and research. That's a tall order for $30 million. It costs more than that to make one relatively small Hollywood movie.

The bill, sponsored by Rep. Deborah Pryce, R-Ohio, is called the Caroline Pryce Walker Conquer Childhood Cancer Act in memory of the lawmaker's nine-year-old daughter, who lost her life to neuroblastoma in 1999. The Senate followed suit, and President Bush signed the funding act July 29.

But as Shafer, the childhood-cancer cure advocate, notes, "the money still has to be appropriated. The next step in the process is to get Congress to include some, or--less likely--all of this money authorized in the appropriations bills that have to pass every year."

Cancer is the No. 1 disease killer of children in the U.S. and the second overall killer of children, behind car accidents. We tend to talk about it in hushed tones instead of screaming for help. But scream we should.

Research groups need collective philanthropy to fund research sufficient to eventually lead to a breakthrough--one in the form of newer, less invasive treatments, cures and maybe even early-detection screening and prevention in our lifetime.

On Sept. 5, the three major television networks, ABC, NBC and CBS, simultaneously broadcast a one-hour telethon, "Stand Up 2 Cancer," which, combined with related efforts, raised $100 million. (The organizers at the Entertainment Industry Foundation have not said what portion of that will go directly to research into pediatric cancers.) During the telecast, they aired the famous radio broadcast that launched the March of Dimes to end polio, during which singer Eddie Cantor asked all Americans to send in a dime.

Today, polio has been eradicated in the U.S. and in more than 200 countries, according to the World Health Organization. That should be a lesson as to how far a little philanthropy can go. May it be an inspiration in the fight against childhood cancer. Wish big.

Helen Jonsen is a Forbes.com senior editor whose daughter recently underwent treatment for osteosarcoma at Morgan Stanley Children's Hospital of New York Presbyterian, Columbia University Medical College.

Sunday, September 7, 2008


Have you seen any gold ribbons lately??? I think it is almost hard to believe that there so little information about Childhood Cancer Awareness Month--- SEPTEMBER is Childhood Cancer Awareness month--! I keep hoping I will read the Charlotte Observer and see it on the front page-- or turn on the news and see a PSA about it-- but I have not! I will keep hoping!! I read about someone who was asked about the gold ribbon-- she knew what pink stood for but she did not know what yellow stood for-- I bet with more publicity no one would have to ask that question---

The Milestones Walk in November is going to be really big--- we need more teams to register- I would love to see teams from schools in our area form a team in support of children- Private, Public, Charter, or preschools--- it does not matter-- Just start a (team ETES, MPTS, Selywn, Eastover, Sharon, AG, Carmel, CCDS, Latin, PDS, Charlotte Christian, Trinity, St.Patrick's, St. Gabe's... I could keep going but we all know there are too many Charlotte area schools to name!!!) and raise funds for pediatric cancer research-- I am hoping to see some new TEAMS formed in the next week-- I bet there is not a school in the area that has not been affected directly or indirectly!

Since I am hoping for so much these days --- I thought I would share this poem that I read off Julia's site--

I HOPE...

I hope you never have to hear the words, 'Your child has cancer.'

I hope you never have to hear, 'The prognosis is not good.'

I hope you never have to prepare your child to undergo radiation or chemotherapy, have a port surgically inserted into their chest, be connected to IV poles.

I hope you never have your child look at you with fear in their eyes and say, 'Don't worry Mommy, everything will be okay.'

I hope you never have to hold your child as they vomit green bile.

I hope you never have to feed them ice chips for lunch.

I hope you never have to watch the 'cure' you pray for slowly take away their identity, as they

lose their hair,

become skeletal,

swell up from steroids,

develop severe acne,

become barely or unable to walk or move,

and look at you with hope in their eyes and say,

'It's going to be okay, Mommy.'

I hope that you never have to stay in the hospital for weeks, months, or years at a time, where there is no privacy, sleeping on a slab, with your face to the wall, where you cry in muffled silence.

I hope you never have to see a mother, alone, huddled, in a dark hospital corridor...crying quietly, after just being told, 'There is nothing more we can do.'

I hope you never have to watch a family wander aimlessly, minutes after their child's body has been removed.

I hope you never have to use every bit of energy you have left, with all of this going on around you to remain positive, and the feelings of guilt, sorrow, hope and fear, overwhelm you.

I hope you never have to see a child's head bolted to the table as they receive radiation.

I hope you never have to take your child home (grateful but so afraid) in a wheelchair because the chemo and radiation has damaged their muscles, 35 pounds lighter, pale, bald, and scarred.

And they look at you with faith in their eyes and say, 'It's going to be okay Mommy.'

I hope you never have to face the few friends that have stuck beside you and hear them say, 'Thank God that is over with,'...because you know it never will be.

Your life becomes a whirl of doctors, blood tests and MRI's and you try to get your life back to 'normal'.

While living in mind-numbing fear that any one of those tests could result in hearing the dreaded words...

'The cancer has returned' or 'The tumor is growing.'

And your friends become even fewer.

I hope you never have to experience any of these things...Because...only then...

Will you understand...

(author unknown)

Friday, September 5, 2008


Grier had a good day at Preschool!!! There was a lot of talking about school and planning and I can say it went as well as I expected-- I would love to say there were no tears but there were and that is okay-- He said he had fun-- more information is coming now that Hayes and Grace are home!!--- So many asked how I did?--- And I can say I was fine-- Unfortunately, I am an old pro at handing him over when he is screaming to people for medical reasons --so leaving him with three teachers that are there to nurture him was easy!!! Also, I had a nice message on my phone that said he was fine and having fun!! He asked me today when he was going to get to go to Hayes and Grace's school??? I told him had two more years of practicing at preschool before we could go to "BIG" school!!!

The Go Grier Go team for the CureSearch walk is halfway to goal of 100 team members!! Thanks to all that signed up for our team-- Grier and I walked into every store at Park Road Shopping Center on Wednesday and asked them to put up a poster for the walk--- ! And I can say some stores said OK!!! I was excited to get a YES out of some people!!!

Grier's appointment at the clinic went well-- he did have to have his port flushed and a full exam-- We do not have to go back until November--- We will be in NYC next month for scans so his check-up will be done there- That will be here before we know it--- time is flying by-- our 90 days are almost up!!

Monday, September 1, 2008

NUMBERS!


Lately, while Grier and I are driving somewhere in the car or walking around Harris Teeter or just doing anything he is constantly asking me about numbers-- His favorite is the speed limit sign--
Grier- "Mom, what is that number that has a 3 and a 5?"
mom- "thirty-five"
Grier- "Mom, what is that number that has a 2 and a 5?"
mom- "twenty-five"
You can see my point-- he is obsessed with numbers and this can go on for a long time-- house numbers.. prices... etc. And it really starts to get fun when he starts making up numbers!

Today is September 1-- September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month. You will see yellow ribbons and they are for Childhood Cancer awareness month--

Here are some sobering numbers....
-Everyday 46 children are diagnosed with cancer in this country-- (That is about 2 classrooms of kids!)
1 out of 5 who is diagnosed with cancer dies
3 out of 5 children suffer long-term effects from chemotherapy and radiation treatments
More than 12,500 children are diagnosed a year and over 40,000 children are currently being treated for cancer-
I am not trying to scare anyone-- but I think we can not ignore the numbers-- It could be your son or daughter, grandchild, niece or nephew, your child's classmate, neighbor, teammate , & friend. What would you do?


I am setting a goal of 100 ( that is the average number of people that read the blog everyday!) for the Go, Grier, Go team ! Even if you can not walk on the 15th you can still be a part of our team of 100-- You just sign up to be a virtual walker. Currently, GGG has 15 team members-- We need 85 more! Easy enough huh?

Go to www.milestoneswalk.org
click Charlotte, NC
click join a team
type a % sign in the blank line-- This will search teams
when GGG shows up in the list -- click join on the right side
you will need a name and a password-- do not use mine because it will not work- This is for your page-
I know I have confused some but it is hard to describe without doing it at the same time!

More to come later about the Curesearch Milestones walk---

Grier has a big week ahead of him-- he will meet his new preschool teacher on Wednesday- He has an appointment with Dr. McMahon on Thursday and then on Friday school starts ! We are hoping for a smooth and easy transition for him as he enters preschool with only a few weeks missed due to trips to NY!--

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Lots of stuff to write... maybe I should post more often!


I am not sure where to start--- I am going to try to be brief --!! We have been busy getting ready for the start of school--- Yes, we are 3 days into it by now and I could not be happier to get back into some kind of routine-- Summer is long when no one goes to camp and no one naps!!!

We took a quick day trip to Grandfather Mountain and everyone had fun-- It started as "we need to get out of the house because we are going to go crazy day"--- and it ended up to be a favorite spot for Grier-- He really liked the mile-high bridge and the bears!

About a week ago, we met with Grier's wish granters from Make-a-Wish-- I think he really enjoyed the visit and has no idea about his wish--- he says "Disney" one minute and the next minute it is a remote control helicopter that is on TV! We are going to wait to see if Disney is really his wish!! It is hard to explain to him about a "wish"-- We are hoping with time he will learn the concept and come up with something--- The visit was fun and I am sure exhausting for the granters, Deb and Chris--- Grier had Chris busy outside playing golf, soccer, and baseball and then brought him inside to play wii bowling -- He was asked a lot of questions about his likes and dislikes-- As you all know all of that could change tomorrow--- That is the great thing about being 4-- So.. as you can see we are taking it slow to make sure Grier chooses something he wants-

The CureSearch Milestones walk is coming along--- It is going to be great and HUGE!!-- lots of fun things for families to participate in while raising awareness of pediatric cancer in our community--- I really thought I would have a full team by now!! I guess with vacation and school starting --- things are slow--- You all still have time--- If you want to make a team of your own that is fine too-- the more the merrier! Go to www.milestoneswalk.org to register--- This is an event you do not want to miss! This a not a competitive 5k-- so all abilities are able to participate--- And if you do not live in Charlotte you can join GGG as a virtual walker! Each team will wear their own T's--- so if you have a GGG T--- you have to join the team! If you do not--- Kerri still has a few-- email her if you want one--rnorwood@comporium.net

Also-- There is a 5k Fall Festival at Myers Park Baptist Church on Sept 6th--- go to www.cornwellcenter.org for more info--- All proceeds will go to Charlotte's Ronald MacDonald House--- I have tried to attach the brochure but can not figure out how to do it--- Anyway, This is a great cause that is near and dear to our heart due to the amount of time we spent in the Ronald in NY-- not quite sure what we would do without it!--- so we are excited Charlotte is getting one for families that are treated at LCH and Hemby--

More to come later-- my carpool duty is calling!!!

Friday, August 15, 2008

How is Grier doing???

OK-- I know most of you check this blog to see how Grier is doing-- and I have forgotten to post that the last few times so I will try to catch everyone up!! I promise I will not do too many PSA's on this post!

Grier went to the clinic last Friday just to have his port flushed-- I say "JUST"-- but actually it is a big deal if you have ever had to watch it-- I told him in the morning after breakfast-- because I knew that would ruin his appetite--- He started to ask lots of questions and we put the "magic cream" on his button--- I know-- some of you have no idea what I am talking about-- but anyway-- we ( all 4 of us)-- headed to the clinic and the discussion in the car was about being brave-- Mostly led by Hayes--- which I know amuses some of you-- :)-- Grier was a little more relaxed and not so anxious so I was hopeful this would be a quick trip-- Grier has a game face -- I guess we both do at this point-- he tends to be shy and ignore people and I tend to have that "grin" on my face! They called him back and the nurse came in with all her supplies-- Grier sat on my lap-- and clinched his face into a "grin" and it was over---Yes... we made it with no screaming and kicking! I did have them draw a tube of blood so I could send it to NY for HAMA #'s-- I was relived and started to pack up and then....GRACE--- said she didn't feel good-- I looked at her and she had no color in her face-- Our nurse quickly got her something to drink and sat her down--- She was fine after a few minutes--- We had a few laughs about it later-- I had to tell her how many times I have done that in my life and she was OK with it!

This week we had to go back to the clinic for a doctor's visit--- really a check-up.... or --"this is what we have done in NY for the last few months and here he is in person kinda visit!!" Grier was so much more relaxed because he knew his port did not have to be accessed --- It made the visit entertaining for some--- I am not sure they have seen the real Grier in a long time! He has gained weight-- he is now up to 35lbs-- and grew a tiny bit in height--- I asked about it and I was reminded that Jeff and I are not tall--- really did not need that reminder-- KNOW that all too well! We talked about what we do NOW--- I am not a fan of sitting and waiting--- but that is what we are going to do-- Dr. M will call NY and see what the tests said about immunizations-- once again there are two schools of thoughts about re-immunizations--- so we talked out that-- I was reminded that we chose to go "the NY way" --( And if we had to choose again -- it would be the same decision!)-- And to sum up the visit--- he looks good! He has the green light to go to preschool-- and we will do monthly check ups in Charlotte- We will go back in 3 weeks and have a check-up and get his port flushed-- In Oct. (first week)-- we will go to NY for a full work-up-- So.. that is it on the medical front---

Just one bit of information regarding the CureSearch walk on Nov.15th-- I have had some questions about how to join the team online---- I think it is a bit confusing too-- so I hope this helps--
Go to www.milestoneswalk.org
click CHARLOTTE walk
go to join a team
you can put in the % sign and hit search and the teams should come up---
Then you should see Go,Grier,Go---- it has to be just like this or it will not show up
click join when you see the name
It then will prompt you to do a page-- I think it is $10 to walk and it says you have to have a minimum of $200 as your goal-- They will not hold you to this-- But if you or anyone plans to walk you must be registered-- Also-- for the friends and supporters that are out of town-- you can join the team as a virtual walker---

I hope that helps-- I know it still sounds confusing-
Thanks to all that are working on helping-- Posters are being put out and sponsors have been recruited!!
Enjoy the last fews days of summer break---
AVC

Monday, August 11, 2008

"Let me know what I can do to help"

You guys have said it for months.... So I am asking!

I NEED HELP-- I recently put information on the blog (www.gogriergo.com) about the upcoming CURESEARCH walk coming to CHARLOTTE @ Freedom Park on Nov. 15th-- I asked you all to join our team--- OR make a team of your own-- I also need help in other ways to support this event--

Here is what I need you help with--

1) SPONSORS--- If you know of a business that would like to SPONSOR this walk--- This is a national charity that supports children's cancer research--- We have two hospitals in our area that are COG hospitals (Children's Oncology Group)-- Levine and Presbyterian-
There are several different levels of Sponsorship -- Please think about businesses that you know-- I would love to see Bank of America, Wachovia, Target, Lowes, Carolina Panthers, Bobcats-- Possibilities are endless-- CHARLOTTE is BIG-- And it would be nice to show everyone that Charlotte thinks children are a priority- So.. if you have connections with ANY businesses in the area please encourage them to support this cause--- I have forms and contact information--Think Local and National ---

2) POSTERS-- I have a lot of posters that need to be placed around the Charlotte area-- Getting the word out about this walk is a huge priority--

BUT Amy... "we already support the American Cancer Society... and we plan to support the STANDUP2cancer cause on Sept. 5th--" -------
Well--- that is great but if you want to support children than you need to look closely at those causes and see how much goes to pediatric research-- ACS-- is a 2 star charity --($0.22 of every $1.00 the ACS funds goes to breast cancer. Colo-rectal, prostate, lung, leukemia and lymphoma all check in at $0.13 to $0.09. The lowest is childhood cancer at $0.03 for every $1.00 the ACS funds)-- Curesearch is a 4 star charity and 98 cents of every dollar goes to research of ALL pediatric cancers- Sept. 5th will be a huge media blitz about cancer but they are forgetting to partner with a pediatric non-profit group -- Strange... when this a #1 killer of CHILDREN-- And we wonder why there has not been a new cancer drug in 20 years for children--- We need to make it a priority just like breast and colon cancer are in this country-


But what about NB research?--- I am not asking you to choose--- Curesearch covers all pediatric cancers -- In September, there will be many ways to help NB research by buying cookies--- or holding bake sales---- Easy enough huh? I am excited about getting the word out-- but I quickly get disappointed when I ask for help and nothing happens or I get told that we do not like to adopt a specific charity because we can not tell one yes and then others NO--- well--- Now you know why things in the pediatric cancer world has stayed the same and why kids lose their battle---

Please think about where you work.. where your kids go to school or preschool or daycare--- where you worship.. different groups you are involved in... YMCA, YWCA... and encourage them to make or join a team-- or even go the extra mile and help by sponsoring, putting up posters, or helping the day of the event-
Thanks-- email me with any questions--
amychristenbury@carolina.rr.com

GO STEEL FAB!

GO STEEL FAB!

Go Grier Go Magnets are Here!

Go Grier Go Magnets are Here!

Grier's address in NYC

Grier Christenbury
Ronald McDonald House of New York

405 East 73rd Street

New York, NY 10021

Before 3F8

Before 3F8

After 3F8

After 3F8
30 minutes later

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Grier leaving NY-pres and going back to MSKCC

Grier leaving NY-pres and going back to MSKCC
www.cornellpediatrics.org-- Great hospital!

Grier going for a ride in the ambulance across the street

Grier going for a ride in the ambulance across the street
just transporting-- not an emergency!

Grier patiently waiting surgery to remove tumor

Grier patiently waiting surgery to remove tumor
Monday 10/29/07

Go Grier Go Picnic in the Park

Go Grier Go Picnic in the Park
Thanks to everyone that helped!!!

On the way to NYC!

On the way to NYC!

Grier at the "new" clinic at CMC

Grier at the "new" clinic at CMC
Playing with the doctors and nurses 10/19/07

Some of our team at the Hopebuilders 5k

Some of our team at the Hopebuilders 5k

HOPE IS GOOD!!

HOPE IS GOOD!!

Supersib- GRACE

Supersib- GRACE

SuperSib-- HAYES

Grier and his Wonder Pets fly boat cake!

Grier and his Wonder Pets fly boat cake!
I am 3!

Grier & Grace at Covenant

Grier & Grace at Covenant

Grier & Pat

Grier & Pat

Go Grier Go!

Go Grier Go!




Jack and Charlie wearing Go Grier Go T's

Jack and Charlie wearing Go Grier Go T's