Friday, September 11, 2009




Let me see if I can remember the last two days--- they have been very busy and I am going to try to be as positive as I can..... There was a bed crunch so they need to move Grier from the POU ( pediatric observation unit) ASAP--- i felt we were getting rushed out but they kept telling me he was doing well--- Well????? He did just have a major surgery-- not his tonsils out.... but a THORACOTOMY--- As soon as the shift change happened on Thursday morning it was very apparent we were headed to the inpatient floor--- as some of you know I dread that floor--- shared rooms and less supervision is not mu idea of resting and healing--- I pleaded with everyone that came in but basically they needed a room- Around 10-- guest services came to take Grier down to x-ray.... not on his bed but in a wheel chair-- or basically on my lap in a wheel chair--- the only problem was he had not been out of bed yet and that was his first time--- :(  He was in some pain but we kept pushing his pain pump as it would allow !  We got to xray on the 2nd floor and he had to walk a bit... ( first time again) to sit on a stool so he could have an xray--- He still had his chest tube in and his catheter and this was making moving around very difficult-- but he did what they asked and we went back upstairs--- then we were met by PT--- so he got off my lap and walked... or shuffled into the room-- he did have a gown on but his backside was showing because he still had a catheter and we were not able to put pants on yet! Then they did some "games"/ exercises before he could get back on the bed--- his hands were very swollen from the IVs that were put in for the surgery- they wanted him to write his name and he did but I still do not know how--- he cried the whole time and after seeing his hand today I can understand why-  The whole time PT was working on him his nurse was tweeking his IVs that were causing problems and his catheter that was not working-- there was too much going on fr his first time out of bed--  He finally got to rest some and had a few sips of Gatorade-- And soon after they were moving us to the floor-- We packed our stuff ( not much) and carefully picked him up with all his "things" hanging from him and put him in the stroller and wheeled over across the hall--- I was about done at that point and I am sure they could tell---  After all we were working on not much sleep and a lot of stress-- We walked into our room and it was a "corner room'  just like the tiny room that I have terrible memories of from Oct. 2007-- so as you could imagine I was holding back tears and really wanted to wheel him out of the hospital and run-- but we settled in and just sucked it up as we always do-  Jeff went back to the Ronald and I stayed--- Grier woke up a lot-- it was almost as if he was a newborn again-- his oxygen level would dip low when he was sleeping and that still had to be monitored like the night before-- but this time it was me doing it-- He had pain about every hour so we would press his "button" and he had night terrors again-- this was probably the worst....His IVs did not work during the night-- as well as the stpid catheter that was not working well as we left the POU-- not sure what time they worked on that-- Grier was over it-- Jeff came back in the early morning and we knew the goal was to get rid of the catheter and chest tube b/c it would make it easier for him to get up and move-- which is good for his lungs and to prevent complications.Both were out by 11 and then the IVs were not working--so that was being worked on by tons of people-- he had been screaming since the cath was taken out and the awful chest tube-- if you do not know what that is google it-- He had calmed down a bit and we were having him blow bubbles and we talked him into trying to use the bed urinal to pee so we could get him up and moving--- it hurts when a cath comes out because you are irritated and when he went it burned--- he then was shaking all over and I called the nurse--- then we called the nurse practioner because he was shaking uncontrollably-- well, they needed blood to run tests and those IVs were not working so after several people attempting to draw blood and missing they finally called someone from the day hospital-- and she was able to fix the IVs-- Grier was so upset that anytime anyone came in he started crying--- He then spiked a fever and it went away quickly.... and we let him rest!  PT kept coming by but after 2 hours of hell we told them to let him rest.... later the blood they took did not do so they needed more and the whole IV saga started again--- but after the first try.... we said.. stop!  Please call the girl who came from the IV room--- and they did -  Grier ended up losing all 3 IVs and they started a new one today but Connie fixed the problem-- He ate a little lunch.. grilled cheese and a smoothie ---Things looked a bit better than the early morning.  We got him some new pain medicine-- Dillaudid--and got him up and walking and it was like a different child.  He walked and stood up and did games like kicking and throwing for over an hour-- Hopefully we can get him out tomorrow if things stay the same as they have this afternoon -- no fevers are a must and he has to be mobile and not need oxygen while he sleeps-- Jeff stayed tonight so I could sleep some--  I hope when I go back in the morning I will hear he had a great night and is ready to get out of M9- That is it--- I have left out tons of things -- too tired to type them all-- Hopefully we will be  home on Tuesday or Wednesday--- we need to do one more procedure before we can leave NY-

6 comments:

Mary Ellen Paine said...

I pray you are resting. I am so sorry life has been hell for all of you. I know this does not help but we have done nothing but think of you all and pray for you. When we go to school everyone asks about all of you. Know we are with you in our hearts and praying that soon you will all be home.
Lots of love to you.
Love,
Mary Ellen

Anonymous said...

I hope you where able to rest last night and you find Grier had a better night! We are thinking of you all sending love and hugs from Charleston.

Netha

Kimberly said...

Hi Amy,I hope you were able to sleep last night. The last 2 days just sounded like they stunk( I am being polite,I wanted to use the other word!) Grier sounds like he is such a little trooper. I'm glad things seem to be improving. Coming home soon will be in my prayers for all of you!
Fondly.Kim

Anonymous said...

Hope your night was restful and you find Grier and Jeff in good shape this morning. Praying for you daily.

Love,
Mrs. D.

Big Bill said...

Grier, can't wait to get my fishing buddy back home. I love you, Big Bill

Anonymous said...

Hi Amy,
I hope that today was a better day for you all...I hope Grier is w/out all the IV tubes and ready to head to the Ronald and home to Clt very soon.
love,
Isabel

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