Tuesday, January 8, 2008

Details....

I am going to attempt to write all the details that I know so far of the upcoming treatment--
We will go back to NY on the 13th-- so far there are no corporate angel flights-- we are going to wait a few more days until we decide to go USAir again---
Grier will start shots tomorrow--- YES!! I have to give shots again-- I really thought that was behind us for awhile-- These shots are part of the clinical trial.. 3F8 so he will receive them until Jan. 18th- On Monday, we have been told to plan on having a long day at the hospital (PDH)-- they will do blood work-- etc. and then we will begin 3f8--- This therapy will hopefully teach Grier's body to kill cancer cells-- The antibody is given by IV for 5 days-- it is very painful and we have been warned the first day is very hard to watch- He is given premeds... benedryl (sometimes you get hives... and morphine & dilaudid ( BIG pain med)--- then during the infusion he will also be given rescue drugs to help relieve the pain-- They promise he will not remember a thing!! He will most likely sleep a lot too-- This will last M-F -- so the 14th-18th! I was planning on coming home after that until they said he would do Radiation the following Monday-- This will take place 2x a day with Anesthesia each time because he has to lay perfectly still--- and remember he is 3!~ He will have Radiation for seven days-- M-F and then off for the weekend and then Monday and Tuesday- They say counts are not affected that much but the side effects are fatigue.. vomiting, diarrhea.. GREAT! This should end on the 29th-- I hope to come home but there is talk that we would have to stay because of a blood test they need to check to see if he can continue 3f8-- timing is critical for the tests-- and then we may be close to the 2nd round of 3f8--- So-- as you can see it will be a lot to deal with in the next few weeks-- If you want to know all the details of the 3F8 then go to MSKCC.org or www.bandofparents.org--
Grier is feeling really good at home-- he has enjoyed going to carpool-- seeing friends-- riding his big grey truck-- and sleeping in his own bed ( I have enjoyed that too!!) He does have a cold now and I hope he gets rid of it before we have to leave again!!
Our last few days have been very busy-- the hardest thing is to cram everything that needs to be done at our house in the few days we are actually in it!! It is hard to believe how much time was spent away from home in 2007-- and 2008 is starting out the same! I think this may be the last long stay in NY for awhile-- then we will be on a more regular schedule-- ( or at least as regular as it gets with MSKCC!!) That is it for now-- I will update when we know our plans-- we still have not heard about his bone marrow yet-- Hopefully it is still clean-- or all these plans will change!

5 comments:

Unknown said...

Oh Amy - thank you for that update. I'm glad that you have enjoyed your time at home just being 'normal' for a while. The upcoming schedule sounds tough. I will pray that it brings the desired results. I am convinced that 2008 is the year of hope and healing especially for sweet Grier.

I am sp in awe of how you are handling all of this. You are an amazing Mom and a very generous friend for continuing to update us so thoroughly. Thank you.

Let us know if you need anything! Grace and Hayes are welcome to ride the 1018 home with Elias any day - he'd probably love it :)

N

Anonymous said...

Thanks so much for the update re: the upcoming weeks for Grier. Wow! This will be a busy time for you all. Thank you for explaining the 3f8 theory to us as I attempted to read the good doctors info online and had no idea what it was saying. This is truly an amazing treatment...and oh how lucky Grier will be when his body responds to the treatment! Happy days!

I'm glad to know that you're all enjoying some family time during these days leading up to what will be quite a lengthy stay in NY. We will be praying for you here in our house, and in the car, and in church, and everywhere we go that we think of you!

Hoping the bone marrow results come back clean and that everything proceeds in due time. We will pray that Grier be as comfortable as possible and that you and Jeff are able to comfort one another during the very difficult moments of Grier's treatments. Thinking of you all with tender hearts and loving spirit!

Tons of love...please call with any needs!
Dina

Crystal said...

WOW, that is a marathon stay in NY. Thanks goodness for the Ronald and corporate angels. I hope a flight works out soon. I hope Grier gets some versed for that infusion...that must be the "forgetting" part they have told you about. In any case it sounds like you are prepared for it, and that will help him the most. If you are fearful, he will know it...If you have a plan, and are ok with it, he will too. GOod luck next week.

Mary Ellen Paine said...

You are amazing. Grier is so lucky to have a mom and dad who have left no stone unturned and have been fighting so hard for him.
I am sorry the schedule is going to be so long and hard but we will all be here for you.

Please do not hesitate to ask if you feel we can help in anyway.
You are always in our hearts and our prayers,
Much love to you all,The Paine's

Anonymous said...

Amy,
I am exhausted just reading about what you all are about to head in to and so sorry you all are having to deal with this.

I continue to be floored by your strength, grace and humor. You are a true inspiration to us all.

Please know you and your family, our precious Grier, are never far from our thoughts and prayers.

You and Jeff are warriors for your son and are keeping an amazing balance for Hayes and Grace!

Thank you for the updates!

All our love and prayers,
Anne

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Ronald McDonald House of New York

405 East 73rd Street

New York, NY 10021

Before 3F8

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Grier leaving NY-pres and going back to MSKCC

Grier leaving NY-pres and going back to MSKCC
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Grier going for a ride in the ambulance across the street

Grier going for a ride in the ambulance across the street
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Grier patiently waiting surgery to remove tumor

Grier patiently waiting surgery to remove tumor
Monday 10/29/07

Go Grier Go Picnic in the Park

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On the way to NYC!

On the way to NYC!

Grier at the "new" clinic at CMC

Grier at the "new" clinic at CMC
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Some of our team at the Hopebuilders 5k

Some of our team at the Hopebuilders 5k

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Grier and his Wonder Pets fly boat cake!

Grier and his Wonder Pets fly boat cake!
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Grier & Grace at Covenant

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